Ephesians Chatper 5 Walk in the New Life Part 3 Roles in Life - Discussion

Reference: Eph 5:21-6:9

The Hebrew word for Worship and Work is the same word Avodah. 
Our work is our worship to God. Our worship to God is much much more than the singing of worship songs in Sunday services or even attending Sunday Worship services. True worship to God is expressed in the way we lead our lives on earth.

The are three main relationships in our lives where we expressed our worship to God where others could clearly see our true worship. Anyone can act holy and worshipful in Sunday Worship singing. But our spouses, our parents or children, and our bosses or colleagues are the ones that can see our true colors - what God really means to us.

Here Paul clearly lay down the ways of worship to God in our these 3 relationships. Interesting, first 2 relates to family and the third relates to our career or work life. The order is also interesting. You must first have husband and wife, then you have parents and children. After family then comes your career. Chinese has a saying, "成家立业" , we start a family and then build your career. Becoming a parent has a important influence in the way you build your career.

All the relationship principles come under the greater will of God (Eph 5:21 in the fear of God, 5:22, 6:7 as unto the Lord). So a wife need not submit to her husband's command to do things against the will of God. However, a wife cannot use the husband failure in one area, e.g getting drunk, and not fulfill her duty like cooking a dinner for him. Under abuse, the wife has the right to report the police and seek protection. Nevertheless, it is important that the wife must help her husband to make wise decisions, giving him the possible scenarios and factors that her husband did not consider. A wise wife respects and help build her husband to be a confident and successful decision maker.

The key tag-lines for the relationships are:

• wife respects and husband loves.
  All doing their part concurrently. It is 100% covenant. Each part do 100% irrespective of whether the other does his/her part.
  2Ti 2:13  if we are faithless, he abideth faithful; for he cannot deny himself. 
• children honor and parent nurture.
  Children honor their parents by being obedient and respectful. Parent nurture by guiding and helping their children to make wise decisions - internalizing the values of God. Parent provoke children by forcing them do their parent's will against the theirs without explaining and gaining their children understanding of the parent's will. The parent must be able get the child willing submission, at least, if the child could not understand fully, has the trust in his/her parent decision that it is good for him/her.
• employees and bosses serves one another with their hearts.
  Employees works from the hearts as unto Christ. Bosses lead by serving them as unto the Christ too. Leader leads for the goodness of the body. Followers obeyed willingly for the interests of the body. Leaders take the initiatives to resolve problems of insubmissiveness by extending his service. This servant leadership is explained well by Jesus in the gospels.

Ephesians Chatper 4 & 5 Walk in the New Life Part 2 Discussion

Eph 4:17 – Eph 5:20 Christian Living – Self & Community

Pam classified the verses into two groups - one set is for self and one set for living in the community.

We are reminded first in Eph 4:1 to live worthy of our calling. Here are additional points in our discussion.

1. To live in the fullness and reality of what Jesus had purchased for us.
2. Difference between grieving vs filling by the Holy Spirit. Persisting in sins is grieving and following God's will is in filling of the Holy Spirit.
3. 7 deadly sins is used as a check list. It missed out the sins of omissions - things that we should do but did not.  We also know sins such as lying are secondary manifestation of primary sin. People lies to protect or to get something. We need to find out the true reason behind so that we can fix the root of the problem.
4. Another checklist is 3G –Glory, Gold, Girls, 1John2:15-16 not love the world, or things of the world: lust of the flesh(Girls), lust of the eyes(Gold - Seeing and Wanting. Envy), pride of life(Glory). (we will discuss these in details  in our future study in 1John).
5. Best is living in intimacy with Christ - to know Jesus more - who is the truth. Jesus  will lead us and let us know His will so that we can redeem our times, living life with a purpose to fulfill our calling.
6. Sometimes to put off the sins and evils in our reflections, but mostly to put on. It is easier to put on - know the will of God, focus on the right and we will not be detracted and tempted by the evils.
7. We are to expose the evil works.  When handling people, follow Eph 4:15 speaking the truth in love.

Ephesians - Conclusions: Visualize Your Learnings

Real learning occurs when we can express what we have learned in another way, such as, writing a short summary of it or even better, visualize it with a map or picture. You do not need to be an artist to visualize concepts that you have learned. There is a large collections of icons and cliparts that are easily available on the net that you can use. You can have 3 cliparts of Sit-Walk-Stand as the base to show main themes of Ephesians. We can use the grow of a seed to a fruit-bearing tree to show how the Christ within us is show externally to the world.

Here are some visualization on Ephesians ....

Please go through the items of the map slowly and I hope you benefit much from our study on Ephesians. Please share your insights with me too.... put in your comment.

Ephesians Chapter 6 Overcoming Life

We are in the War Zone
The section covers Eph 6:10-24.

The enemy, the devils, have invaded our territories, the earth that was given to us by God, and conquered it. Humans are under their deception and control. Humans are slaves thinking that they are free. But praise be to God and Jesus Christ who came to free us and empower us. Believers are people who broken free from their slavery and become free in Christ. Believers are given the responsibility of going back to free their fellow men. They are in war and under the attack of the enemy. But the enemy is spiritual operating through men. So it is very easy for us to get confused and attach the men instead of real enemy behind the scenes.

Eph 6:10 begins with "Be strong in Christ & in His Might" . Why? Because we are at war and is in the war zone. We are under attack.

The Enemy is Spiritual
Eph 6:12 tells us that we are fighting not against our fellow human beings, though it may appear that way, but against the spiritual forces in the sky. The enemy is well organized with different roles and areas of operation. They have special attack forces that work on governments and individuals. But one thing is clear, they work through human beings. Jesus rebuked the devil behind Peter's saying of asking Jesus not to go to the cross. So we should not be upset and unforgiving to those that hurts us. We need to wise as surpent so that we may not be easy victims of the enemy and at the same time we ourselves must take care not be used by the enemy to harm others (harmless as doves). Always remember that evil power working behind those friends and colleagues and even our loveed ones. How we can stand and be victorious in the midst of all these.


The True Meaning of Putting on the Whole Armor of God
The answer is to put on the whole armor of God. The armor of God is just a symbollic to aids our memory and it is not for us to really put the physical armor.

1. Belt of Truth: The foundation is Truth which holds the other together. We must know the Truth and the Truth is and in Christ. Bible is our absolote reference point and standards for our conduct and values and judgment. Knowing the truth set us free. Believing in ungodly lies kept us in bondage and depression. Talk to people who are depressed and bitterness, you will find that they believe and hold on to lies.
2. Breastplate of Righteousness: We must guard our hearts. A righteous heart, a renewed conscience is a guiding light. We must keep our hearts and motivation pure. Peace is the means where the Holy Spirit guides us. Do not grieve the Holy Spirit by hardening our hearts and be deaf to His promptiing. Do not indugle in sins and be short in hearing.
3. Shoes of Gospels: We are not just to stand to withhold the devils attack. We should match forth to recover stolen territorities. We conquer and bring deliverance through the Gospels of the Kindgom of God - deliverances to the captive, new life in Christ for everyone who receives.
4. Shield of faith: The 2nd area (1st is Truth vs Lies) of attack is our faith or trust in truth of the Bible. "Did God say?". These are other darts - accusations, persecutions, slanders, temptations, etc....
5. Helmet of Salvation for the mind. A truth renewed and clear mind will make the right decisions. We must know that we are saved forever, rebirthed with the mind of Christ. Think like, feel like and decides like Christ. A condemned mindset will paralyze us for actions It will kept us in sins instead of repentance and breaking free. We can be knocked down, but be sure of our salvation and Christ's forgiveness, we will not be knocked out. We will rise up again from the mud and shine forth in Christ.
   
6. Sword of the Spirit: Our weapon against the enemy is the Word of God - Bible. We can use it as defense - to cast off all the curses and all the evil reports. We are use it as offensive to command the promised Will of God to be done on earth as it is in heaven, to proclaim healing for the sick, deliverance for those in bondage of addictions, peace for those in strife, and the good news of Christ's salvation and the empowering grace of God for godly living.
7. Praying: Praying is another weapon we are to use. For those who speak in tongues, this is a frequent reference for exhortation to pray all the time. Praying - connecting and commuication, especially the listening part, keep us alert to the real spiritual situation (manifested in the natural world) happening all the time. People who persecute you think that they are following God's will. We need discernment and we need to intercede for all. The key things to pray for - powerful and relevant Words of Wisdom for the situations and boldness (in face of the persecutions) to go forth to proclaim them. Boldness does not mean rashness and insensitivity and lack of respect. Listen to the guidance of the Holy Spirit - the right word for the right time and the right situation will bring forth fruit.

Our Beloved Brother Tychicus
The Bible is not just about doctrines but real life living relationships. Here we have Tychicus as a faithful minister bringing them the latest updates about Paul. Keep your community alive and do not live a lonely Christian life. Join one or start a small group with the Christian brothers or sisters you can get along with.

Farewell Blessings
The farewell words are most important. These are the last words. What did Paul want us to be and have :

1. peace - individual and community peace. (Not peace of inactivity or uniformity but harmony of differences. Lots of interactivities of building up the community of God to Christ likeness as per Eph 4-5 Chinise have a powerful word of this harmony 和 called 泰 - community abundance in peace ).
2. love with faith - love is a will and a follow-on action. It takes great faith in the Word of God to love the unlovables. Nevertheless, do it because of Christ.
3. grace - power of God for godly living. Grace comes from those who truly love Jesus. True love is a willingness, unconditional and of pure motive.

Questions for Reflections

1. Who are our real enemies?  Who are not?  What are they doing?
2. How do we fight this Spiritual Battle?
3. How and What should we pray?
4. What are the key blessings for our brothers?
   

Ephesians Chapter 5 Walk in the New Life Part 3 Roles in Life

This section,  from Eph 5:21 to Eph 6:9, tell us how a reborn Christian will live out the 'Christ in us' in the various roles of our life, such as husband or wife, as parents and children, as bosses and employees, and so forth.

There is a very wrong teaching that classifies vocations into spiritual and secular. The spiritual ones means those in full time church ministry and the secular ones are those outside. There is no such thing as a spiritual or seculara vocation. The 'spirituality' of our vocation lies in how we do it. A pastor could be very secular in his job as a pastor if he is more concern about his reputation and achieving his own freshly objectives than the people under his charge. A waitress on the other hand can be very spiritual in her work if she does it well to serve the customers for the Lord. This is what Paul is teahing us here. As salt and light of the world, how is Christian different from the other.

The Principle - Submitting One to Another in Respect of God

The underlining principle for all relationships is given in Eph 5:21 (GNB)  Submit yourselves to one another because of your reverence for Christ. We must first submit to Christ and then we can submit one to anther. Wife to submit to husband as unto the Lord. Husband to love wife as Christ loved the Christ. Christ is 1st and the reference point. If there be any problem, it is lack of commitment to Christ as the root. Submitting is discussed in detail in Submitting - Biblical vs Secular View . The posting also cover the roles and relationships and is not repeated.

Wife - Husband Roles & Relationship
Wives are always mentioned first in the Bible to submit to their husbands. In most area, man takes the lead, but in this area, wife taks the lead! The submission should be in everything. It is a matter of attitude and heart tha wife does so naturally. Submission is shown in respect first. Without respect, it is difficult to submit. Husband will value wife's opinions and respect most as she is the closest person to him. Wife holds the key to her husband's confidence and self-respect. Wife holds the success of her husband in her hand! Wife can and should, even if she is more capable (in certain areas and never all), to help and to encourage and to promote her husband. She can help make a husband wiser and more confidence in making decisions and taking the lead in home and then his career and life in general. I think I agree with the statement behind every successful man lies a great wife. A man becomes more capable when her wife gives him the respect due. Wife should participate in helping her husband make good decisions by giving additional view points and scenarios for the different choices.

In a similar vein, husband holds the secret to the beauty, both internally and externally, of his wife! He does so by loving his wife as Christ loved the Church (Eph 5:25-27 no spot, wrinke, holy, no blemish!) A loved wife will show forth joy and beauty from within. 

Other references to wife-husband relationship can be seen in Col 3:18, Titus 2:5, 1 Peter 3:1-6.
Wife submission brings blessings to her too.


Children-Parents Roles & Relationship
Here again, the 'obeyee' has the initiative and should take the initiative. Love cannot be forced. Christ can and have offer His love to us. It is up to us to take the action to receive His love. Instruction has been given, the child can response with obedient action. The parents cannot force it out of them - that will not be willingness and will resulted in rebellion later when the child has more independence. Honoring parents can only be encouraged and cannot be forced too. Here is a wonderful promise of blessings for Children that honor their Parents - all will go well and live a long life on earth.

The right way to bring up Children is given in 6:4, not provoke them to wrath (to anger and then rebellion later), but in nurturing and admonition of the Lord.

There are two points:

• A DO NOT - provoke the children.
• A MUST DO - nurture them in the biblical values.

How do parents provoke their children?

Here are a few examples:

• Breaking promises made.
• Being a hypocrite. Not walking their talk. They say one thing and do another.
• Being a tyrant - must do exactly as I say or else. Not showing love and concern. Not explaining the reasons for demanding such behavior.
• Not showing care, giving respect to the children opinions and wishes. Not really listening to the children.
• Not showing love for one another. Quarrel and fight in front of children.
• ... can you add some more into the list?

The nurturing takes more effort and time than just "Father say so". It is a process of training and discipline. It is about telling the child in advance of the various consequences of possible choices and then letting the child make the choice, and then, very important, follow-up on the consequences of the decision. e.g. telling the child to come to eat at dinner time and taking away the food if the child did not come to eat by certain time should be executed faithfully. If the child did not show up for dinner and get hungry by 9pm asking for food, the parent should tell the child to go hungry till next morning for breakfast. Most parent just give in to child and prepare food for the child if he or she is hungry. The parents just teach the child that what the parents have said earlier are not true. The rules are not for real. Parents can forgive but Society at large does not.

Employees-Bosses Roles & Relationship
Worldly view sees employees and bosses as dividing the pie of revenues. Less to the Employees means more for the Bosses. Biblical view shows that any business is one - employees+bosses. They shared the common objective of giving values to the customers and revenue to their business. Employees are to work for the Lord, giving their best in serving the customers, and not under compulsion of fears and threats and monitoring. Bosses should see the value of their employees and seek to take care of their welfare as all belong to Christ. For employees, we worked for Christ heartily, irrespectively of the good or bad bosses. There is great promise here. Eph 6:8, we will receive the good thing done from the Lord! If your boss is not paying you the right salary you deserve, someone else is likely to offer you more to take you away. But in the meantime, give of your best as to the Lord.

Questions for Reflection
  1. What is the Principle on Submission?
  2. How should one behave, the spiritual behavior, in the roles of Husband-wife, Parent-Children, Bosses-Staff?

Ephesians Chapter 4 & 5 Walk in the New Life Part 2

This personal walk in the New Life (in Christ) covers from Eph 4:17 to Eph 5:21.
It can be divided into two main parts

1. Put OFF the Old Self
2. Put ON the New Life

1 Put OFF the Old Self
The Old-Self consists of the old worldly mindset and the bodily desires. The spirit part of man has been rebirth anew in Christ. But the old mindset and body remains. They are to be consecrated and sanctified. This is the journey of growth - transforming mind and body for the glory of God.
What are the old things, old beliefs, old passions to be put OFF?

1. Old worldview of without God Eph 4:17-18
2. Hardness of heart to refuse to accept and acknowledge God.
3. The sinful desires of lust, greed, impurity (Eph 4:19) and so forth....

This reminds me of the frequently mentioned "Seven Deadly Sins" and prompted me to a mapping. Here is result:

The original sin is 'Pride' - I know what is good and bad for me. There is no need for me to listen to any others to tell me that I'm wrong. I am my own judge. A sign of this sin is disobedience especially to God (since I am God myself). The subsequent sin is Envy - I must be like or better than anyone since I think I am the best. If I cannot, I will use other means, such as lies, slander, malice, strife and eventually even murder (like Cain on Abel) to remove those better than me.

The detail list of 'put away' is shown below for completeless:

2 Put ON the New Life
How does a Christian with a New Life behave? It should start from the inside with the mind. The mind is to be renewed with the truth that is revealed and taught in Jesus Eph 4:21-23. The method is to be filled with Spirit (Eph 5:18). We be, like Christ in us, holy and righteous, tenderhearted, kind, forgiving (as Christ has forgave us) and be wise in using our time by knowing the will of God for the present time. Knowing God's will save us the wasted effort of chasing things that are futile.

Then we go on with the outside - our mouth - our speech. Our speech are to be fitting to the occasion, for building up, giving grace and giving thanks. We are to celebrate with and to the Lord with singing, speech and music.

Then comes the tougher one, exposing and reproving the wrongs and deeds of darkness. Most people do not want to expose or correct others for fear of the wrath and bad reactions. Most of us would like to keep quiet in the name of maintaining peace and unity and let the disease remains like leprosy until the body is eaten up without any feelings. Exposing and Correcting need to be done in love and with care. We must be able to gain the trust first else any correction will be seen as an attack and will not result in true repentance and change.

Questions

1.   Create a Put-Off and Put-On list of behavior that reflect our New life in Christ
2.   What are the seven deadly sins? Is this a complete list of sins? If not, what are missing?
3.   How are we to overcome the deadly sins?
4.   Is anger a sin? How should we handle anger?
5.   How can one be freed from bondage of any kind?

Ephesians - Chapter 3 Mystery Exposed & Abundant Life Q&A

Additional Revelations
In our discussion on Chapter 3, we discovered additional key points that we want to be recorded for our recall and encouragement.
They are:

1. You cannot imprison a person's spirit & influence.
2. Paul's imprisonment did not restrict the spreading of the gospels. Paul brought the gospel into the prison (or where-ever he was). Phil 1:12-14 gives the answers to why Paul's imprisonment is for our glory... the gospels spread and brothers become more bold in sharing!
3. Our attitude to life should be - no matter what, I win (from God's perspective) see John 16:33 world-tribulation-be of good cheer-Christ have overcome -> we overcome through Christ.
   
4. There is no condemnation for suffering - even Paul is imprisoned. Do not despise those who are undergoing their challenges of life. Encourage them to win for Christ.
   
5. Each of us has our own calling. There is no need to mimic or be envious of others lives and calling. Discover our own and live out the life. We will find the greatest satisfaction and fun inspite of the challenges.

For a concept map showing the principles, see Secret of Victorious Christian Living

The Questions for our review and some possible answers are given below:

Q1 What is the Mystery and what does it disclose?
Gentiles is Partakers of God's Blessings as well when God created the universe. The New Man in Union with Christ. To show the Rulers in Heavens the Wisdom of God.

Q2 What was Paul's calling and how he was progressing?What can we learn from him?
Paul's Calling was to preach the gospel to the gentiles. Even in prison for the preaching. For their glory=goodness. Recognize the purpose of God in the various stages of our life in Christ.

1. what is God's purpose in this?
2. learn the lessons quicky and move on to the next stage
3. don't be too fast to accuse God, yourself, others and get angry.

Q3 What does Fullness of God mean? How do you get it?
It is a process of increasing degree in filling from 0% to 100%.
The method is: By Faith & Experience in Christ's Love enpowered by the Holy Spirit.
      1. By Faith in Christ with obedient action
      2. Holy Spirit gives power
      3. Experience the Change
      4. Know Christ's Love more
      5. Grow in Faith
      6. Fullness of God
It is increasing Power by the Holy Spirit for doing things beyond the worldly expectation & standards. e.g. Going Extra Mile, Love instead of Revenge, Breakthrough ideas.

Q4 Explain the Struggle of Old vs New and how to gain victory for the New.
Man is a tripartite being of Spirit, Soul and Body. It is about Inner Man(Spirit) vs Outer Man (Mind & Body). Inner Man new birth - connected to God; outer man was unchanged. Hence the battle.
The secret of victory is to be filled Fullness of God see Q3.
Our focus is then on Christ within - knowing His love, his will, his feeling and following Him in our daily walk in life.

• The way to overcome sins is not be focus on sins but focus on the One with life and power. Arrange our life so that sin no longer looks good to us. 
• Joy is our strength (Ps 68:3, Rom 15:13).
• 1 Thes 5:16-18 show us that joy is a command. Joy can be learned. God does not give a command and not empower us to do it. Ps 118:24 We must take responsibility for joy. 
• Learn to Celebrate: Ps 100 - eat, drink, sing, dance with a grateful heart to the Lord
• don't wait for event to be joyful :until i graduate, until I got promoted, or until ....
• joy is now - every moment of life is a gift of God
• The surest mark of a Christian is Joy, not faith or love which takes time to be seen.
  

The principle is to work from the inner man outwards - from relying on the Christ within to sanctify the soul and body.

Ephesians Chapter 4 Walk in the New Life Part 1

The Basic Doctrines - Truths
The first 3 chapters of Ephesians cover the wonderful and major doctrines of a Christian such as:

• The Purpose of Our Creation - We are not the result of random evolution. We are chosen in Christ before the foundation of the universe to be holy and blameless. Eph 1:4
  
• Everyone, the so called gentiles outsiders, are all along included in God's plan to be united with Christ as His one new body - His church on earth.
• We are saved by grace through faith in Christ Jesus for good work - God's masterpiece Eph 2:8-10
• We are adopted through Christ as sons of God with all spiritual blessings, having inheritance of Christ,  and with authority, seated with Christ in the heavenly Eph 1 & 2. 
• We are the New Man - identify of God's children, with Christ within.
  
• In the meantime, we are sealed by the Holy Spirit as a deposit for future glorification.
• Rooted in the love of Christ, strengthened by the Holy Spirit, we are to be filled with the fullness of God Eph 3:16-19. Christ in us is the great mystery revealed.
• ....

We now have all the ingredients for success (defined as living up to the calling that God has for us when he created us) like a seed. The only reasonable response for us is to live OUT what God has put IN us with His power in us. How should a New Man in Christ conduct himself is presented in Eph 4 to Eph 6:9.

Walk in a Manner Worthy of Our Calling - The New Man & Body of Christ
Hence Chapter 4 begins with 'we are to walk in a manner worthy of our calling". It immediately follows about how we should relate to one-another - humility & love & patience & unity because we share the same Body, Spirit, Lord,... of Christ.


What is the Gospel?
The Gospel is about Jesus Christ dying on the cross to pay for our sins and resurrected to give us new life (Zoe, God's Kind of life that is eternally good. Those who are not saved, also have eternal life, external bad & suffering life in hell).  The Church has spent too much time on sins resulting in a sin-centered sick church because we become what we focus our thinking on. If we have only one word to represent the good news, if will be "LIFE". Christ came to give new Life to condemned and dead people.  We are called here to walk in the Newness Life that Christ has given us. Build in this new life and sins will be taken care of.

We stress on "Developing on your strengths and manage your weakness". Developing on your strengths bring success. Working on your weaknesses may lead to failures. There is only one warning about our strengths. Our strength, not wisely employed in the right situations, could be our weakness too. For example, perseverance, a strength in the right thing, is stubbornness in the wrong thing. Managing our weakness includes outsourcing to others - i.e. get other with such strength to augment our weakness. We could also get help and support from others. Remember, in-source strengths (build on them) and out-source weakness, to use business lingo.

If you are concerned about the sinner prayer for salvation, we can check the verses on salvation.

• Joh 3:16  For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
• Rom 10:9  That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
  Rom 10:10  For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
• Act 16:30  And brought them out, and said, Sirs, what must I do to be saved?
  Act 16:31  And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house.

None of the verses above talk about confession of sin (it could be argued that it is implied) but believe in Jesus Christ (To know Christ as God and personal Lord is more important that our sin is forgiven.) and to receive New Righteous Life ! We are saved from dead into new life.

What is the commandment of the new life? Love. As in

• 1Jn 3:23  And this is his commandment, That we should believe on the name of his Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, as he gave us commandment. 

The love in new life will keep us in righteousness. Love is more powerful than sins.

• 1Pe 4:8  And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins.
  

Grace is to Empower Us for Goodness, Righteous and Truth
We are not left alone in this walk, Eph 5:7-9 tell us that grace 'was' given to empower us to have fruit of righteousness, goodness and truth. Sadly, quite a number of believers only receive the grace for salvation and did not realise the grace is for our sanctification and glorification as well. Christ want to walk our walk with us.


The 5 Fold Ministries for Equipping & Building the Church
Everyone of us given 'grace' of different kinds for different roles in the church. The purpose of the different gifting are to used in achieving the common purpose of "building up of the church" Eph 4:12. Unity is of diversity and not conformity to the same role. I prefer to use the term "Harmony" instead of unity as unity has be distorted to be "uniformity". Paul in Rom 12 uses body of different parts as illustration of unity in purpose but differences in functions.

For a church to be healthy, we need to see the harmonious function of different roles in action. It is a smooth and optimum synchronization of different parts like a living body. Sickness is when some parts of the body are not able to perform their original functions. Can you tell what roles are being played in the church? It should not be a one man show. What roles are missing? More importantly, what role are you called to play?

Paul in Rom 12:6-13 and 1 Cor 12:28 listed other giftings and roles.  The additional roles included are helper-server, ruler-manager, giver of money, doer of mercy, and other gifts like healing and miracle working, speaking of tongues that are gifts related to the roles.

Borrowing from business, the 5-folds are line functions and the other are supporting functions. However, no one is not important and no one is higher than others. As worldly minded, we tend to associate roles with rank and want to give order to be served then to serve. That is not what the Bible says. Those who lead are those who serve.

The Outcomes of a Healthy Church

• Unity of faith
• Knowledge & Demonstration of the Power of Christ the King
• Mature Manhood
• Not fickle minded
• Christ likeness in full stature
• Speaking Truth in Love
• Following Christ as the Head
• Fruit of goodness, righteousness and truth
  

This posting, Eph 4:1-16 covers the first part of Walk as a member in the Body of Christ - The Church.


Questions

1.   What is a Church?
2.   What are the Roles in a Church ?
3.   How are they determined?
4.   What is the purpose of the Roles?
5.   How can you tell we have attained the purpose?
6.   How can we have unity in church? What is a better word for unity?

Answers:

1. A Church a group of people united in Jesus Christ.
2. 5 Folds
1. apostles: the church planters; CEOs. Go. Pioneers. hunters.
   
2. prophets: knowing God's will for your congregation, God's words for the times.
   
3. evangelists: preach the Gospels. Marketing. Go. Hunters.
   
4. shepherds: care for the sheep; seek & counsel the lost sheep. the builder, farmer.
   
5. teachers: truth and doctrines. builder, farmer.
3. Matching of Roles and Strengths & Gifts.
   When we work in our strengths, we feel energized and joy. We don't complain and even ask for more. We are focused on doing our best.
4. To equip and build up one another to maturity conforming to the stature of Jesus Christ our Head.
5. See the paragraph "The Outcomes of a Healthy Church"
6. A better word is Harmony. It is a synchronization of differences to accomplish a shared mission.
   

Ephesians - Chapter 3 Mystery Exposed & Abundant Life

Two key topics are covered in Ephesians Chapter 3. They are

• The Mystery Exposed 
• The Principles for Abundant Life

The table of content for Eph 3 are:

1. Paul's Calling & the Mystery Exposed
   
2. Prayer for the Ephesians & Secrets of Abundant Life
   
3. Praise for Jesus Christ

Paul's Calling & the Mystery Exposed

The shared about his own calling from God - the ministry to preach the Good News (The Revealed Mystery) to gentiles, or people of the world. Short-term wise, Paul was in prison because of the his calling but his imprisonment only served to show that the Gospel was not imprisoned and he serves as an example for others benefits.

The Mystery, hiddened but new revealed through Paul, was that the gentiles are to be fellow heirs (3:6) and of the same body and partakers of same promise of Christ. This mystery has beed hid in God since the beginning supporting the God's original in Eph 1:4.  Here are the details:

Prayer for the Ephesians & Secrets of Abundant Life

Paul's prayer for the Ephesians that they be not discouraged but instead grew up to be strong and may be filled with all the fullnss of God revealed the secrets for abundant life in Christ. How can one live a life reflecting the glory of God? So filled with God that the His glory shine forth from us? 

The secret is revealed in 3:16-19 : By faith receives the indwelling of Christ, empowered by the Holy Spirit, rooted in His love, and experience beyond knowledge, in the community of fellow believers, the true love of Christ and then we will be filled to the fullness of God and showing forth from the inner-man. See the mind map below:

 

Praise for Jesus Christ

Paul confidence in Christ 'more than' answering in his prayer resulted in great praise for Jesus Christ. The power that is able to do more than we ask is residing and worked in us. We don't need to look outside of us, seeking help from others, asking God to give us again for the same power that has already been given. The 'more than' is for the glory in the church. The glory in the Church is for everyone of us. We are to show forth His glory ---- we are the salt and light of the world.

Questions

Here are some questions for our reflection.

1. What is the Mystery and what does it disclose?
2. What was Paul's calling and how he was progressing? What can we learn from him?
3. Are there purposes for your suffering?
4. Explain the Struggle of Old vs New and how to gain victory for the New.
   

Ephesians - Chapter 2 NEW Man in Christ Q&A

Q1. What are the additional new things you learned about your identity and calling? 
Answer:

  Our Identity has the following additional (to Eph 1) attributes: 

• A New Man in Christ
• Peace with God
• Spiritual Access thru Holy Spirit to God anytime anywhere
• Citizens of heaven - with our spirit connected in Heaven & Feet on earth
• Member of Christ's Body on Earth
  

  Our Calling:

• Fulfill the God's Masterpiece of us.
• We are saved for God's glorfying work

Q2 Compare Before and After Salvation for man.
     Before                     After
dead in sins              alive in Christ
alienated                  peace with God
no hope                   glorification with God
condemned to hell     seated with Christ in heaven  


Q3 What is the Purpose of Salvation ? How is it different from other religions? 
The purpose of salvation is about giving New Life to dead men. It is not possible to make sinful man good. A rebirth in new life is necessary. Religions are about trying to make sinful man 'gooder'!


Q4 Who is the Body? What is the Purpose?
Believers are Christ's body on earth. It is the temple of God. It is the Bride of Christ (see Eph 5) 

Q5 Differentiate destination and journey. Explain the dichotomy of Complete in Christ 2 Pet 1:3  and Growth into Image of Christ Rom 8:29.
      2Pe 1:3  ... granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness,
      Rom 8:29  ...  to be conformed to the image of his Son 
  
   2Pe 1:3 is like a seed - all the ingredients of life are contained completely in the seed. When the seed is planted in good soils, the seed will grow up to be a tree and then bear fruits. The bearing of fruits is the realization of Rom 8:29

   It starts with the new godly identity with all godliness things given to grow up to be conformed to image of Christ manifested in our work.
   Journey is the process and progress to reach an end-point the destination.
   The Journey of sanctification is the process of working out the Christ within, experiencing by faith and knowing Him intimately. In this walk with His continued guidance, supply and comforts we grow up with be like Christ.

Q5b How it relates to your present living and what you are attaining? 
 Specific Application - fill the blanks....     

For me ...
      my calling is clearly is .... or I am discovering my calling as ........
      my goal for the long term is ............   (Check: How is God glorified in me with that goal?)         
      my short-term goal is ..................
      my plan to accomplish the goal is ................
      my walk - actions are ...................  (work in progress)
      my learning /review are .................
  
Q6 Compare Have-Do-Be vs Be-Do-Have.
Note: Be is your identity, inner self; Do is the work, the effort used; Have is the achievement of possessions of things, positions, realization of dreams, the external manifestation  


True Grace

1. Spirit - complete; soul - renewing; body -  doing good work
2. Be -> Do (Journey) -> Have
   ( from Christ in You permeating to Showing Christ in you)
3. face reality and grow-up to maturity children -> young man -> father

Ultra Grace

1. Be = Have  Spirit=Soul=100%. Already arrived.
   
2. no works needed, no element of time, no sufferings, disappointment, etc
3. Outcome: superficial; hiding; blaming; can't face adversity. Treat sin lightly. Stayed as baby in Christ.
   

Insufficient Grace, Grace + work

1. Have - Do - Be
2. Salvation by grace is a start. It depends on you to maintain your salvation through  good works and discipline. You need to hold on to your Father's hand.
3. Outcome: stressed out, burnt out, angry with God and leave God in stages. Prayed that they find true grace before stage 4 leaving God on this earth. It is the Heavenly Father who is holding your hand and He will never let go your hand.

For more details see...

• Degree of Grace - From Grace-less to Ultra-Grace 
• "Be-Do-Have" of Grace Based Doctrine
  

Ephesians - Chapter 2 NEW Man in Christ

Chapter 2 main theme is "The NEW Man in Christ" through the cross of Jesus Christ.

It compares the before and after salvation. All would agree that the New-Man is rebirth by grace through faith (2:8-9). But most will ignore v10, we are His workmanship created in Christ Jesus that we should WALK in them. Our walking to the new man to reveal the glory of Christ that is inside has not been emphasized enough in these days blessings and little-commitment gospel.

Here is the outline:
Chapter 2 Outline
Before our new birth
We are dead and condemned.....

Salvation is by Jesus for the Purpose of:

After, our new life in Christ:
We are not to live alone but belong to the body of Christ -the Church, to be His dwelling place.
We have additional blessings. Please add them to the list in Chapter 1.


Questions for Reflection:

1. What are the additional new things you learned about your identity and calling?
2. Compare Before and After Salvation for man.
3. What is the Purpose of Salvation ? How is it different from other religions?
4. Who is the Body? What is the Purpose?
5. Differentiate destination and journey. How it relates to your present living and what you are attaining?
6. Compare Have-Do-Be vs Be-Do-Have.
   

Ephesians - Chapter 1 God's Grand Plan

Chapter 1 Overview and its theme is:
The Blessings of Believers are given in:

Paul's prayer for the Ephesians, can be our model prayer for others too, as:


Questions for Review and our life applications:

Bible Study on Ephesians - Overview

The group started on doing a Bible Study on Ephesians.

We begin by learning a Bible Study Method and applying it to our study of Ephesians.
Here is mind map of the method and the examples from Ephesians.


The red color powerpoint slide on the table of content is a straight forward exercise of doing dividing the book into sections. The bottom color map will need a lot of thinking and integrating with other knowledge learned.

Another overview can be: